5 Steps To Getting Over a Fight.
You know those moments when you are married and things just get a little knotted up. Not a big awful-we -need-therapy argument… but just simple misunderstandings resulting in annoyance…..
Yeah those… the kind of annoyance where you wouldn’t push him down a grassy hill… but if he sort of tripped down the hill you would sort of smirk…
Normal Married stuff.
Here are 5 things to do to help in those situations
…or better yet..
A list on how not to push your husband down the grassy hill.
1.) Get some Air…. go for a jog …or my favorite do a wayward errand that I have been dodging
*Not the kind of air which makes you crankier…or even more revved up
*The kind of air where you remember “it’s not about me…or him”
2.) Come Clean….Start with phrases like:
*”I was upset/confused when _______ happened.”
*”It bummed me out when you _________ and I really don’t want to feel this way.”
3.)If you need to know his “why” then do it with out being manipulative… just ask him straight out.
*”I want to know why because I really want to avoid this in the future.”
4.)Pray... in all things but in this pray…
*”Just You be glorified,…not me, not him…but You be glorified”..and mean it!
5.)But in the end… don’t push him down the hill…just get over it.
*Decide this time/point/being right is just not worth it.
*You have so much more to offer in your day and this is just stealing…not giving.
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I would love to hear from anyone else on great tips in getting over simple marriage annoyances…I don’t care if it’s your first day of marriage or you 70th year of it we can all learn from each other! Please leave your favorite tip in the comments section